Tips on Posing!
Most people get awkward when the camera comes out. That’s normal. They freeze up or force a smile or start asking what to do with their hands. The good news is, none of that matters as much as people think. A good photo isn’t about holding the perfect position. It’s about capturing something honest.
Whether you’re stepping in alone, coming with your other half, wrangling the kids for a family shot, or wanting to show off a passion, here’s what helps.
When It’s Just You
You’re not a model. You don’t need to be. The best solo photos come when you’re relaxed and settled into yourself. Start by turning your body slightly. Facing the camera square-on can feel stiff. Shift your weight to one leg. Let your arms move naturally. One in a pocket. One resting on your side. No need to force anything.
If you don’t know where to look, try looking just past the camera. Or look straight down the lens if we want something bold. The eyes do most of the talking. Think about someone you love or something that lights you up. You’ll carry that in your expression whether you mean to or not.
For Couples
It’s not about symmetry. You’re not posing for a catalogue. What matters is the space between you and how you fill it. Touch her hand. Lean in. Let her wrap around you. These things don’t need to be coached. You already do them. I just watch for the moment when you forget the camera is there.
Sometimes I’ll have you walk and talk. Or just stand and take a breath. Most of the time, the best shot happens between the ones you’re expecting.
For Families
There’s no such thing as a perfect family photo. What there is instead are real moments that tell the truth. A kid hiding behind mum’s leg. A toddler mid-tantrum. A shared laugh when something goes sideways.
The best thing you can do is show up ready to embrace whatever happens. If the kids are full of beans, we let them run. If someone won’t sit still, we don’t force it. Some of the strongest family portraits come from the moments after the pose. When everyone exhales and just stands together.
Pull in close. Let the little ones climb up or snuggle in. Let it be what it is.
Photos Around Sports or Hobbies
This is about identity. Not just action. If you’re into lifting, I want to see the chalk on your hands. If you’re into music, I want to see the pause between chords. The prep. The quiet focus. That moment before it all kicks off.
Bring your gear. Show me your environment. Don’t clean it up. Don’t make it pretty. Keep it real. The detail matters. It’s not about capturing you doing the thing. It’s about showing what the thing means to you.
Most people think they need to pose better. But the truth is, the best shots happen when you’re not trying so hard. The goal isn’t to look perfect. It’s to look like you.
When you’re ready, I’ll be behind the camera. No fuss. No pressure. We’ll make something real.